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My Ex Won’t Tell Me Anything About The Kids! 3 things the custodial parent needs to tell the noncustodial parent about their children

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jul 22, 2014 | Child Custody, Child Visitation, Custody Evaluation, Custody Modification, Divorce, Family Law, Paternity

In many divorce and paternity cases it often happens that one parent is provided primary physical custody of the child or children, and the other parent receives parenting time. Physical custody refers to where the child primarily lives. There is another type of custody, legal custody, that could be either joint in both parents or sole in one parent. This means, the parents can share joint legal custody and one parent could have primary physical custody, but it also means that one parent could be provided with both sole legal custody and primary physical custody. Legal custody refers to the parent or parents that have the decision making authority regarding education, health, religion, and other big life decisions for the child.

If you have joint legal custody with your ex, or your ex was awarded sole legal custody, this does not mean that you are cut out of receiving information about your child. Even if your ex has sole legal custody, it only means that he or she has the decision making authority, they must still keep you informed about your child.

Two major categories of information that you have a right to as a parent, even if you do not have legal custody are:

  • School records and information: Federal Educational Rights Privacy Act.
  • Medical records: Including birth control.
  • If you share joint legal custody with your ex, and even if you are not the primary physical custodial parent, you still have the right to jointly make decisions regarding your child’s:

  • Healthcare (the doctors he or she goes to, medication, or surgeries)
  • Education (where the child goes to school and if the child is enrolled in any special programs or extracurricular activities)
  • Religion (the religion the child is brought up in and the religious activities the child is involved in).
  • However, there may be limitations to these general standards imposed by a court if there is good reason. For example, a court could give the parents joint legal custody, but state that the Mother (or Father) has the final decision making authority with respect to Religion (maybe this is a point of contention between the parties).

    We hope that you have found this information to be helpful in understanding legal custody and what it means to you. These general categories of information shared between parents may or may not apply to your specific case given the circumstances. This is not intended to be legal advice. If you have questions or concerns about your specific case, Dixon & Moseley, P.C. can help evaluate your specific case. This blog post was written by Attorney, Lori B. Schmeltzer.

    What Is a Notice of Appeal in Indiana? A Guide to Starting an Indiana Appeal (2026)

    On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Aug 6, 2026 | Appellate Practice

    An Indiana appellate lawyer's guide to Notices of Appeal, Indiana Appellate Rule 9, filing deadlines, and the first step in the appellate process. Quick Answer: What Is a Notice of Appeal in Indiana? A Notice of Appeal is the document that formally starts an appeal in...

    What Orders Can Be Appealed in Indiana? A Guide to Final Judgments, Interlocutory Appeals, and Appellate Rights (2026)

    On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Aug 5, 2026 | Firm News

    An Indiana appellate lawyer's guide to determining whether a trial court order can be appealed and when appellate review may be available. Quick Answer: What Orders Can Be Appealed in Indiana? Not every unfavorable court ruling can be appealed immediately. In Indiana,...

    How Many Days Do You Have to Appeal in Indiana? (2026)

    On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jul 15, 2026 | Firm News

    An Indiana appellate lawyer’s guide to Notice of Appeal deadlines, Motions to Correct Error, interlocutory appeals, and common timing mistakes. Quick Answer: How Many Days Do You Have to Appeal a Case in Indiana? In most Indiana appeals from a final judgment, the...

    How to Appeal a Case in Indiana: Step-by-Step Guide, Deadlines, Costs, and Common Mistakes (2026)

    On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jul 9, 2026 | Uncategorized

    A practical Indiana appellate lawyer’s guide to Notice of Appeal deadlines, appealable orders, the appellate record, briefing, oral argument, rehearing, and transfer to the Indiana Supreme Court. If you lost a civil case in Indiana, you may wonder whether the trial...

    Common Grounds for Appeal in Indiana Civil Cases (Complete Guide)

    On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jul 1, 2026 | Uncategorized

    When a civil case does not go your way in an Indiana trial court, an appeal may provide a path to reversal, but only if certain legal errors occurred. Indiana appellate courts do not retry cases or reweigh evidence. Instead, they review whether the trial court...

    When Is Parental Consent NOT Required for Adoption in Indiana? (2026 Guide)

    On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jun 25, 2026 | Uncategorized

    Adoption in Indiana typically requires the consent of a child’s biological parents. However, Indiana law provides several important exceptions where a court may allow an adoption to proceed without a parent’s consent. Understanding these exceptions is critical;...

    Failure to Object: When Is an Issue Waived?

    On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jun 9, 2026 | Uncategorized

    An Indiana Litigation Guide for Preserving Error on Appeal In Indiana litigation, one of the most common mistakes a trial lawyer can make is failing to object at the right time and in the right manner. The rule is simple but unforgiving: if you do not properly object, you may waive the issue for appeal. An objection must be timely…

    Waiver on Appeal: The #1 Reason Appeals Lose in Indiana

    On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jun 2, 2026 | Uncategorized

    In Indiana appellate practice, many appeals do not fail because the underlying issue lacked merit. They fail because the issue was waived. In plain terms, waiver means the appellate court will not decide an argument because it was not properly preserved in the trial court, properly supported on appeal, or properly presented under the Indiana Rules of Appellate Procedure. Common…

    How to Preserve Error for Appeal in Indiana

    On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | May 28, 2026 | Uncategorized

    Executive Summary There are several things that an attorney can do to ensure that an error is preserved for appeal. Making timely and specific objections and obtaining an explicit ruling from the judge on such objections can ensure that a matter is preserved. If evidence is excluded, the attorney should make offers of proof through questioning the witness outside of…

    Can a mother legally deny parenting time to an unmarried father?

    On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | May 10, 2026 | Uncategorized

    The answer depends on several important legal factors, including paternity, custody orders, and the best interests of the child. An unmarried mother has sole legal custody in Indiana unless a court orders otherwise. An unmarried father does not have enforceable rights until paternity is established by either signing a paternity affidavit or filing a paternity action in court. If paternity…

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