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Four Ways To “Torpedo” Your Family Law Case That You Must Avoid

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 11, 2017 | Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce, Property Division, Property Valuation

While most domestic cases resolve before trial, those that are tried generally involve unique legal issues, or more commonly, extremely contentious issues such as child custody, amount of parenting time or child support (the two are linked), or serious issues about valuation of assets.  Indiana judges get a “hot record”, meaning they are given great deference in judging the witness’s credibility. This blog covers four ways to “torpedo” your case by being a witness that lacks credibility.

The first is quite common—denying undeniable facts. For instance, in a long-term relationship that involves drug use, even “recreational” (illegal) marijuana, it is generally not credible for one parent to accuse the other parent and take the position he or she has never used this or other drugs. The bonds and intimacy of marriage, barring some strong and coherent position by a party, makes this not believable. If the judge determines this, it begs the question of what else the witness is not accurately testifying about or grossly distorting or simply lying. No matter how detrimental, untruthful testimony is almost always more harm than honest but unfavorable testimony.

The second is also extraordinarily common—making the other parent a villain. This frequently occurs in child custody litigation. It takes the form of one party testifying repeatedly about the bad actor the other person is and why he or she should not be awarded custody. There is a obscure legal concept that 1s do not marry 10s, which means generally people with shared views marry and have children and both have made mistakes in parenting. This position is most always harmful in contested child custody litigation.

A closely related third way to “torpedo” your case is to take an unreasonable position on every matter before the court. This generally indicates the other parent is much more suited to being given merit to his or her positions and the person being unreasonable is focusing on causing emotional harm in the court room, not seriously litigating his or her case.

Finally, be yourself. For instance, in contested custody litigation where there is psychological testing, it often shows one parent is answering questions to present themselves in a more positive light as the custodial parent than reality would bear out. This is magnified in court proceedings and creates a “fake” persona a seasoned Indiana judge will easily realize. This may result in diminishing otherwise strong evidence.

These are observations Dixon & Moseley, P.C. attorneys have observed through thousands of trials. Generally, they should be avoided to maximize the chances of meeting your legal objective (goal). This blog is written by Dixon & Moseley, P.C. counsel who handles contested divorce and paternity cases and post decree litigation throughout Indiana. This blog is written for general educational purposes and is not intended as a solicitation for legal services, nor is it legal advice. It is a form of advertising.

How Indiana Courts Divide Retirement Accounts in Divorce

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Apr 21, 2026 | Uncategorized

Retirement accounts are generally considered marital property to the extent that were earned during marriage. Although retirement funds that accumulated before the marriage are not automatically excluded from the marital property, they can affect how the marital property is divided. 401(k)s and employer-sponsored retirement plans are divided using a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO), which is a court order directing…

What Counts as Marital Property in Indiana?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Apr 19, 2026 | Uncategorized

Executive Summary Indiana is a “one-pot” property state when it comes to marital property. This means that almost all property owned by either spouse at the time of the dissolution is included. Common types of marital property include property acquired during the marriage, property owned before the marriage, inheritances and gifts, retirement accounts and pensions, businesses, and debts and liabilities.…

Parenting Time vs. Custody in Indiana: What Parents Confuse Most

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Apr 15, 2026 | Uncategorized

Executive Summary There are many differences and common misconceptions surrounding custody and parenting time. Custody, which is divided into legal custody and physical custody, deals with who has the authority to make major decisions about a child’s life and where the child primarily lives, respectively. Parenting time refers to the schedule of when each parent will physically spend time with…

Can Custody Be Modified in Indiana? What Must Change

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Apr 9, 2026 | Uncategorized

Executive Summary Yes, custody can be modified in Indiana. Courts require a showing that modification of custody is in the best interests of the child and that there has been a substantial change in one or more statutory factors the court looks at when deciding custody. Some common examples of changes that warrant custody modification include a significant change in…

How Indiana Judges Decide Child Custody—the “Best Interests of the Child” Standard

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Apr 7, 2026 | Uncategorized

Executive Summary When parents separate or divorce, child custody is often the most emotional and contested issue. In Indiana, judges do not award custody based on gender, income alone, or who “deserves” it more. Instead, courts apply a legal standard known as the “best interests of the child.” Courts consider 8 statutory factors to determine what custody arrangement is in…

Is Indiana a 50/50 Divorce State? What the Law Really Says

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Apr 5, 2026 | Uncategorized

Executive Summary The short answer is no, Indiana is not a 50/50 divorce state, but it often starts out that way. Indiana does not require marital property to be divided equally in every divorce. Instead, Indiana follows the rule of equitable distribution, with a presumption that an equal division is fair unless evidence shows otherwise. The court looks at the…

Step-Parent Adoption: How It Works in Indiana

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Apr 5, 2026 | Uncategorized

Stepparent adoption grants the same legal rights and responsibilities to a stepparent that a biological parent would have. In addition to meeting the requirements associated with any form of adoption, the stepparent must be leally married to the custodial parent to adopt their stepchild. The non-custodial biological parent of the child must consent to the adoption absent specific legal grounds…

How Divorce Works in Indiana: Step by Step (2026 Guide)

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Mar 24, 2026 | Uncategorized

Executive Summary In order to divorce in Indiana, at least one spouse must meet the statutory residency requirement. There are numerous grounds recognized for divorce by Indiana courts, but the most common is irretrievable breakdown of the marriage. A spouse seeking a divorce must prepare a petition including information about any minor or dependent children they have, as well as…

Indiana Guardianship Laws (2026): How to File, Costs, Types, and Alternatives

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Mar 19, 2026 | Uncategorized

Executive Summary A guardianship is a court supervised legal arrangement where a judge appoints a guardian to make decisions for someone that is incapacitated and unable to make decisions about their finances. To obtain a guardianship, a prospective guardian must file a petition for guardianship with the appropriate court, notify interested parties, and attend a hearing where a judge will…

Indiana’s New Custody Law: What Parents Need to Know About Findings of Fact Executive Summary

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Mar 17, 2026 | Uncategorized

Indiana law now requires judges to explain child custody decisions in writing. As of July 1, 2025, Indiana courts must include written findings of fact and conclusions of law in final custody orders. This means judges can no longer issue unexplained custody rulings. Instead, they must clearly identify the evidence they relied upon and explain how it supports the custody…

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