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Four Ways To “Torpedo” Your Family Law Case That You Must Avoid

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 11, 2017 | Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce, Property Division, Property Valuation

While most domestic cases resolve before trial, those that are tried generally involve unique legal issues, or more commonly, extremely contentious issues such as child custody, amount of parenting time or child support (the two are linked), or serious issues about valuation of assets.  Indiana judges get a “hot record”, meaning they are given great deference in judging the witness’s credibility. This blog covers four ways to “torpedo” your case by being a witness that lacks credibility.

The first is quite common—denying undeniable facts. For instance, in a long-term relationship that involves drug use, even “recreational” (illegal) marijuana, it is generally not credible for one parent to accuse the other parent and take the position he or she has never used this or other drugs. The bonds and intimacy of marriage, barring some strong and coherent position by a party, makes this not believable. If the judge determines this, it begs the question of what else the witness is not accurately testifying about or grossly distorting or simply lying. No matter how detrimental, untruthful testimony is almost always more harm than honest but unfavorable testimony.

The second is also extraordinarily common—making the other parent a villain. This frequently occurs in child custody litigation. It takes the form of one party testifying repeatedly about the bad actor the other person is and why he or she should not be awarded custody. There is a obscure legal concept that 1s do not marry 10s, which means generally people with shared views marry and have children and both have made mistakes in parenting. This position is most always harmful in contested child custody litigation.

A closely related third way to “torpedo” your case is to take an unreasonable position on every matter before the court. This generally indicates the other parent is much more suited to being given merit to his or her positions and the person being unreasonable is focusing on causing emotional harm in the court room, not seriously litigating his or her case.

Finally, be yourself. For instance, in contested custody litigation where there is psychological testing, it often shows one parent is answering questions to present themselves in a more positive light as the custodial parent than reality would bear out. This is magnified in court proceedings and creates a “fake” persona a seasoned Indiana judge will easily realize. This may result in diminishing otherwise strong evidence.

These are observations Dixon & Moseley, P.C. attorneys have observed through thousands of trials. Generally, they should be avoided to maximize the chances of meeting your legal objective (goal). This blog is written by Dixon & Moseley, P.C. counsel who handles contested divorce and paternity cases and post decree litigation throughout Indiana. This blog is written for general educational purposes and is not intended as a solicitation for legal services, nor is it legal advice. It is a form of advertising.

Protective Order in Indiana: Filing Online, What It Covers, and What Happens Next Executive Summary

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Mar 12, 2026 | Uncategorized

Indiana protective orders are civil court orders that can restrict contact, require someone to stay away from you, and impose other safety‑related conditions in situations involving domestic or family violence, sexual assault, stalking, harassment, or child sex grooming. In Indiana, petitions for protective orders can be filed through the state’s Protection Order E‑Filing Service, and once an order is issued,…

What Does the Indiana Court of Appeals Review (and What It Won’t)?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Mar 11, 2026 | Uncategorized

If you’re thinking about an appeal in Indiana, one of the most important — and most misunderstood — questions is what the Indiana Court of Appeals will actually review. Many people assume an appeal is a “do‑over” of the trial. It is not. The Indiana Court of Appeals has a limited role, and understanding that role early can help set…

Indiana Criminal Appeals: How to Appeal a Conviction in Indiana

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Mar 5, 2026 | Uncategorized

A criminal conviction in Indiana does not always mark the end of the road. In many cases, defendants have the right to pursue a criminal appeal in Indiana and ask a higher court to review whether legal errors affected the outcome of their case. Understanding how Indiana criminal appeals work, and acting quickly, can be critical to protecting your rights.   What Is a…

Who Is Entitled to Parenting Time During Spring Break in Indiana?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Feb 26, 2026 | Uncategorized

Spring break is a highly anticipated time for children—but for divorced or separated parents, it often raises important legal questions. One of the most common questions Indiana family law attorneys hear is: Who gets parenting time during spring break in Indiana? Ultimately, the answer to this question is fact specific. However, generally speaking, the answer can be found in your…

Appealing Summary Judgment in Indiana: What Works (and What Doesn’t)

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Feb 24, 2026 | Uncategorized

Indiana provides parties involved in legal disputes, whether it be criminal or civil in nature, with the opportunity to appeal the outcome of the case, albeit, with some exceptions. While the right to appeal is a cherished tradition, it can also cause headaches due to the extremely technical nature of the appellate practice. This can leave many with a multitude…

What Are the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Feb 22, 2026 | Uncategorized

When parents separate or divorce in Indiana, one of the most important and emotional issues to resolve is parenting time. Indiana courts rely on the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines to create fair, consistent schedules that support children’s well-being and maintain strong relationships with both parents. If you’re navigating a custody case, understanding how these Guidelines work can help you make…

Military Divorce in Indiana: What Service Members Should Know

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Feb 17, 2026 | Uncategorized

Divorce is never easy, and when one spouse is a member of the military, the process involves additional legal layers at both the federal and state level. If you’re a service member (or married to one) considering divorce in Indiana, it’s important to understand how military status affects jurisdiction, benefits, property division, child custody, and more.(Divorce in Indiana) 1. Filing…

Stepparent Adoption in Indiana: Legal Steps for Blended Families

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Feb 10, 2026 | Uncategorized

Blended families are increasingly common, and for many stepparents in Indiana, adoption is a meaningful way to solidify an already strong parent-child bond. Stepparent adoption provides legal security, emotional stability, and clarity for the entire family—but it also comes with specific legal requirements that must be handled carefully. Below is a clear, practical overview of how stepparent adoption works in…

How Long Does a Father Have to File for Paternity in Indiana?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Feb 5, 2026 | Uncategorized

If you’re a father who isn’t married to your child’s mother at the time of the child’s birth, establishing paternity is one of the most important legal steps you can take. Paternity affects custody, parenting time, child support, inheritance rights, and even access to medical information. A common question we hear is how long do I have to file for…

How Retirement Accounts Are Divided in an Indiana Divorce

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Feb 3, 2026 | Uncategorized

One of the most stressful—and often misunderstood—parts of a divorce is what happens to retirement accounts in a divorce. For many people, their 401(k), pension, or IRA is the largest asset they own besides their home. The thought of splitting it with their soon to be former spouse can feel overwhelming. Understanding how Indiana courts divide retirement accounts can help…

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