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Four Ways To “Torpedo” Your Family Law Case That You Must Avoid

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 11, 2017 | Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce, Property Division, Property Valuation

While most domestic cases resolve before trial, those that are tried generally involve unique legal issues, or more commonly, extremely contentious issues such as child custody, amount of parenting time or child support (the two are linked), or serious issues about valuation of assets.  Indiana judges get a “hot record”, meaning they are given great deference in judging the witness’s credibility. This blog covers four ways to “torpedo” your case by being a witness that lacks credibility.

The first is quite common—denying undeniable facts. For instance, in a long-term relationship that involves drug use, even “recreational” (illegal) marijuana, it is generally not credible for one parent to accuse the other parent and take the position he or she has never used this or other drugs. The bonds and intimacy of marriage, barring some strong and coherent position by a party, makes this not believable. If the judge determines this, it begs the question of what else the witness is not accurately testifying about or grossly distorting or simply lying. No matter how detrimental, untruthful testimony is almost always more harm than honest but unfavorable testimony.

The second is also extraordinarily common—making the other parent a villain. This frequently occurs in child custody litigation. It takes the form of one party testifying repeatedly about the bad actor the other person is and why he or she should not be awarded custody. There is a obscure legal concept that 1s do not marry 10s, which means generally people with shared views marry and have children and both have made mistakes in parenting. This position is most always harmful in contested child custody litigation.

A closely related third way to “torpedo” your case is to take an unreasonable position on every matter before the court. This generally indicates the other parent is much more suited to being given merit to his or her positions and the person being unreasonable is focusing on causing emotional harm in the court room, not seriously litigating his or her case.

Finally, be yourself. For instance, in contested custody litigation where there is psychological testing, it often shows one parent is answering questions to present themselves in a more positive light as the custodial parent than reality would bear out. This is magnified in court proceedings and creates a “fake” persona a seasoned Indiana judge will easily realize. This may result in diminishing otherwise strong evidence.

These are observations Dixon & Moseley, P.C. attorneys have observed through thousands of trials. Generally, they should be avoided to maximize the chances of meeting your legal objective (goal). This blog is written by Dixon & Moseley, P.C. counsel who handles contested divorce and paternity cases and post decree litigation throughout Indiana. This blog is written for general educational purposes and is not intended as a solicitation for legal services, nor is it legal advice. It is a form of advertising.

Can a Child Choose Which Parent to Live With in Indiana?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 28, 2026 | Uncategorized

In Indiana, a child does not get to decide custody on their own. There is no specific age at which a child suddenly gets to choose which parent they will live with. Instead, Indiana courts decide custody based on what is in the best interests of the child. That means the outcome of your case depends on the evidence presented…

Indiana Protective Orders Explained: A Guide to the Indiana Civil Protection Order Process

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 22, 2026 | Uncategorized

Protective orders in Indiana are designed to protect individuals from domestic violence, stalking, harassment, and threats. Whether you are seeking a protective order or have been served with one, understanding Indiana’s protective order laws is essential to protecting your rights and avoiding serious legal consequences.   What Is a Protective Order? A protective order is a civil court order issued…

What Is a Custody Evaluation in Indiana—and When Is It Used?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 20, 2026 | Uncategorized

When parents cannot agree on legal custody, physical custody, or parenting time, Indiana courts have several tools available to help determine what arrangement best supports the child’s well‑being. One of the most significant of these tools is a custody evaluation. Although not required in every case, custody evaluations can play a pivotal role when disputes are complex, high‑conflict, or involve…

The Final Verdict Before Trial: Understanding Summary Judgment in Indiana

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 15, 2026 | Uncategorized

When you enter a civil lawsuit, your immediate concern is often the trial. However, many cases, even high-stakes litigation, may never see a jury. Instead, they are decided much earlier through a powerful pre-trial procedure known as Summary Judgment. This motion is a critical battleground in Indiana courts and understanding its purpose and standard is essential for every client.  …

Guide to Child Relocation in Indiana

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 13, 2026 | Uncategorized

Making the decision to move, whether it’s for a new job, to be closer to family, or for a fresh start, is often exciting, but it becomes complicated quickly when children are involved in a case with established custody or parenting time orders. In Indiana, moving with children is not a simple choice; it is a serious legal procedure governed…

Should I Appeal my Court Case?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 8, 2026 | Uncategorized

If you believe the outcome of your case is unfair or incorrect, you may have the option to file for an appeal. The appellate process in Indiana differs significantly from the trial court procedures you may have experienced. Below is an overview of key points you should know: Timeline: In Indiana, you have 30 days from the date of the…

Living Together: Why Unmarried Couples Need a Cohabitation Agreement

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 5, 2026 | Uncategorized

Couples living together without the formality of marriage, otherwise known as cohabitation, is increasingly common in Indiana and across the country. While moving in with a partner is an exciting step, it’s critical for couples to understand a core legal reality: Cohabitation does not grant the same rights and protections as marriage in Indiana. For unmarried partners, a Cohabitation Agreement…

Understanding the 4th Amendment and Indiana Article 1, Section 11: Protection Against Unlawful Searches and Seizures

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Dec 18, 2025 | Uncategorized

If you ever find that you were subjected to an unlawful search or seizure, it’s crucial to understand your rights and take action to protect them. Two key provisions, the 4th Amendment of the U.S. Constitution and Article 1, Section 11 of the Indiana Constitution, serve as vital protections for individuals against unreasonable searches and seizures by the government. Both…

Decoding Discovery: What You Need to Know as a Client in an Indiana Lawsuit

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Dec 11, 2025 | Uncategorized

Being involved in a lawsuit, whether as a plaintiff or a defendant, can feel overwhelming. Once the initial pleadings are filed, you enter a crucial phase called Discovery. This is often when you, the Plaintiff or Defendant, start getting asked detailed questions and asked to provide documents. It’s normal to feel confused or even defensive about these requests, but understanding…

Can I Get Visitation with My Grandchildren After Their Parents Divorce?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Dec 7, 2025 | Uncategorized

Divorce can be a complicated journey, filled with tough decisions about custody, finances, and even who gets to keep the family pet. However, one critical aspect often overlooked is the impact of divorce on grandparent visitation rights. How will grandparents maintain their cherished relationships with their grandchildren once the dust settles? In Indiana, the Grandparent Visitation Act (IC §31-17-5-1) provides…

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