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Four Ways To “Torpedo” Your Family Law Case That You Must Avoid

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 11, 2017 | Child Custody, Child Support, Divorce, Property Division, Property Valuation

While most domestic cases resolve before trial, those that are tried generally involve unique legal issues, or more commonly, extremely contentious issues such as child custody, amount of parenting time or child support (the two are linked), or serious issues about valuation of assets.  Indiana judges get a “hot record”, meaning they are given great deference in judging the witness’s credibility. This blog covers four ways to “torpedo” your case by being a witness that lacks credibility.

The first is quite common—denying undeniable facts. For instance, in a long-term relationship that involves drug use, even “recreational” (illegal) marijuana, it is generally not credible for one parent to accuse the other parent and take the position he or she has never used this or other drugs. The bonds and intimacy of marriage, barring some strong and coherent position by a party, makes this not believable. If the judge determines this, it begs the question of what else the witness is not accurately testifying about or grossly distorting or simply lying. No matter how detrimental, untruthful testimony is almost always more harm than honest but unfavorable testimony.

The second is also extraordinarily common—making the other parent a villain. This frequently occurs in child custody litigation. It takes the form of one party testifying repeatedly about the bad actor the other person is and why he or she should not be awarded custody. There is a obscure legal concept that 1s do not marry 10s, which means generally people with shared views marry and have children and both have made mistakes in parenting. This position is most always harmful in contested child custody litigation.

A closely related third way to “torpedo” your case is to take an unreasonable position on every matter before the court. This generally indicates the other parent is much more suited to being given merit to his or her positions and the person being unreasonable is focusing on causing emotional harm in the court room, not seriously litigating his or her case.

Finally, be yourself. For instance, in contested custody litigation where there is psychological testing, it often shows one parent is answering questions to present themselves in a more positive light as the custodial parent than reality would bear out. This is magnified in court proceedings and creates a “fake” persona a seasoned Indiana judge will easily realize. This may result in diminishing otherwise strong evidence.

These are observations Dixon & Moseley, P.C. attorneys have observed through thousands of trials. Generally, they should be avoided to maximize the chances of meeting your legal objective (goal). This blog is written by Dixon & Moseley, P.C. counsel who handles contested divorce and paternity cases and post decree litigation throughout Indiana. This blog is written for general educational purposes and is not intended as a solicitation for legal services, nor is it legal advice. It is a form of advertising.

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On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Nov 25, 2025 | Uncategorized

When it comes to navigating the appellate process, having a law firm that can manage every detail from start to finish is crucial. Appeals are far more complex than many realize, and they require an experienced team that can take care of all aspects of the case, ensuring nothing is overlooked. At our firm, we pride ourselves on providing comprehensive…

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On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Nov 6, 2025 | Uncategorized

Starting a business is an exciting endeavor, but deciding how to structure that business can be overwhelming. One of the most popular business structures for business owners today is the Limited Liability Company (LLC). Whether you’re just starting out or thinking about restructuring an existing business, understanding the benefits of forming an LLC can help you make an informed decision…

Can I use AI to Solve Legal Issues/Represent Me?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Oct 22, 2025 | Uncategorized

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On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Feb 20, 2025 | Uncategorized

Dixon & Moseley is pleased to announce that two attorneys were included on the 2025 Indiana Super Lawyers and 2025 Rising Stars lists. Julie C. Dixon has been selected to the 2025 Indiana Super Lawyers list for Family Law. Each year, no more than five percent of the lawyers in the state are selected by the research team at Super…

What is a Gray Divorce in Indiana?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Feb 5, 2025 | Uncategorized

Gray divorce is a term that refers to divorce of couples that are 50 or older. Gray divorces have become increasingly common since the 1990s. A gray divorce could come from couples with a long-term marriage, a late-in-life first-time marriage, or who are in subsequent marriages. Each gray divorce, like all marriages and divorces, presents their own unique challenges when…

The Divorce Process: What to Expect

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 8, 2025 | Uncategorized

The divorce process can be a very stressful, confusing, and emotional time in anyone’s life. During a divorce many important and potentially contentious issues, like dividing property and child custody, will be decided. With everything that goes on during a divorce, questions can arise about what to expect while going through the process. While it’s important to know every divorce…

The Impact of Social Media on Family Law

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jan 8, 2025 | Uncategorized

Divorces and child custody disputes can raise a lot of questions, especially regarding social media. A common question is “can my ex use my social media posts in court?” In short, yes. We all know actions on social media can have real life consequences and that can extend into your family law case. Social media posts have become a common…

Depositions: What to Expect and What to Know

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Dec 11, 2024 | Uncategorized

When in the discovery phase of your trial, you may be called for a deposition. A deposition is used as a part of the discovery process and has the potential to be used at trial. A deposition is a witness’s sworn out-of-court testimony. In a deposition, you will be put under oath and the opposing party’s attorneys will ask you…

Five Tips to Prepare You For Your Next Hearing

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Dec 9, 2024 | Uncategorized

Whether it is your first time, or your hundredth time, going to court can be a stressful experience. If it is your first time, it’s natural to be nervous about what to expect and to want to be prepared for your day in court. Many unexpected things can come up in court so it’s best to be as prepared as…

Can I Get Visitation with My Grandchildren After Their Parents’ Divorce?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Oct 2, 2024 | Uncategorized

Divorce can be a complicated journey, filled with tough decisions about custody, finances, and even who gets to keep the family pet. However, one critical aspect often overlooked is the impact of divorce on grandparent visitation rights. How will grandparents maintain their cherished relationships with their grandchildren once the dust settles? In Indiana, the Grandparent Visitation Act (IC §31-17-5-1) provides…

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