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The Do’s and Don’ts in a Divorce (or other civil) Trial

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Sep 6, 2017 | Divorce

Most civil cases resolve before court; however, a small percentage go to trial. A first and good impression goes a long way toward building a rapport with the judge. A person who acts like court is a burden to attend and dresses casually–like going to the beach–makes less than a good impression.

This blog addresses five key things to do and not to do in court and includes tips from recent observations in our recent trials.

First, normal emotion is expected. However, scoffing at a witness, laughing, or interjecting sentences out of turn shows disrespect for the Court and the judicial process. In some cases, litigants swear or throw items in court. This is direct criminal contempt of court and can lead to incarceration and fine—certainly if anger is an issue in the case (like a criminal battery in a fight or marital violence), which speaks volumes to the judge.

Second, be yourself. Making an admission that could reflect you are part of the issue, such as what led to the breakdown of the marriage and why this Court should decide as it does, could provide your fault with credibility. Generally, no relationship, marriage or other civil matter that proceeds to a court or jury trial has a party without some fault. Admitting mistakes makes you believable.

Third, through your counsel, make it clear what you want from the Court in the way of decision, and why. Very often litigants just “gripe” about the other side without giving the Court the evidence to decide the case and how to decide it under the law. Putting on the evidence is the parties’ burden.

Fourth, be sure of the use of your “smoking gun”. Often times the stressors of trial cause myopic focus on a text or email that you believe “will win your case.” But when it is admitted, the other side sometimes then presents the rest of the email or text string, and this key evidence works against you. Sometimes, it could even make the other side’s case

Fifth, listen to your attorney. There is so much emotion and focus on “pet” issues at times, that what you think is important has 1). already been put into the evidence, 2). is harmful to your case, or 3). Irrelevant, immaterial, and may alienate your position with the Court.

We hope this blog helps you with your counsel to consider that the trial itself is a key time, and there are ways you as a litigant can help or hurt your case if you understand the process and the concepts in this blog. This blog was written by attorneys at Dixon & Moseley, P.C. Dixon & Moseley, P.C. advocates handle civil, domestic and criminal litigation, as well as appeals throughout the state. This blog is provided for general informational purposes only and is not intended as legal advice or a solicitation for services. It is an advertisement.

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On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Aug 5, 2026 | Firm News

An Indiana appellate lawyer's guide to determining whether a trial court order can be appealed and when appellate review may be available. Quick Answer: What Orders Can Be Appealed in Indiana? Not every unfavorable court ruling can be appealed immediately. In Indiana,...

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On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jul 15, 2026 | Firm News

An Indiana appellate lawyer’s guide to Notice of Appeal deadlines, Motions to Correct Error, interlocutory appeals, and common timing mistakes. Quick Answer: How Many Days Do You Have to Appeal a Case in Indiana? In most Indiana appeals from a final judgment, the...

How to Appeal a Case in Indiana: Step-by-Step Guide, Deadlines, Costs, and Common Mistakes (2026)

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jul 9, 2026 | Uncategorized

A practical Indiana appellate lawyer’s guide to Notice of Appeal deadlines, appealable orders, the appellate record, briefing, oral argument, rehearing, and transfer to the Indiana Supreme Court. If you lost a civil case in Indiana, you may wonder whether the trial...

Common Grounds for Appeal in Indiana Civil Cases (Complete Guide)

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jul 1, 2026 | Uncategorized

When a civil case does not go your way in an Indiana trial court, an appeal may provide a path to reversal, but only if certain legal errors occurred. Indiana appellate courts do not retry cases or reweigh evidence. Instead, they review whether the trial court...

When Is Parental Consent NOT Required for Adoption in Indiana? (2026 Guide)

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jun 25, 2026 | Uncategorized

Adoption in Indiana typically requires the consent of a child’s biological parents. However, Indiana law provides several important exceptions where a court may allow an adoption to proceed without a parent’s consent. Understanding these exceptions is critical;...

Failure to Object: When Is an Issue Waived?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jun 9, 2026 | Uncategorized

An Indiana Litigation Guide for Preserving Error on Appeal In Indiana litigation, one of the most common mistakes a trial lawyer can make is failing to object at the right time and in the right manner. The rule is simple but unforgiving: if you do not properly object, you may waive the issue for appeal. An objection must be timely…

Waiver on Appeal: The #1 Reason Appeals Lose in Indiana

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Jun 2, 2026 | Uncategorized

In Indiana appellate practice, many appeals do not fail because the underlying issue lacked merit. They fail because the issue was waived. In plain terms, waiver means the appellate court will not decide an argument because it was not properly preserved in the trial court, properly supported on appeal, or properly presented under the Indiana Rules of Appellate Procedure. Common…

How to Preserve Error for Appeal in Indiana

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | May 28, 2026 | Uncategorized

Executive Summary There are several things that an attorney can do to ensure that an error is preserved for appeal. Making timely and specific objections and obtaining an explicit ruling from the judge on such objections can ensure that a matter is preserved. If evidence is excluded, the attorney should make offers of proof through questioning the witness outside of…

Can a mother legally deny parenting time to an unmarried father?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | May 10, 2026 | Uncategorized

The answer depends on several important legal factors, including paternity, custody orders, and the best interests of the child. An unmarried mother has sole legal custody in Indiana unless a court orders otherwise. An unmarried father does not have enforceable rights until paternity is established by either signing a paternity affidavit or filing a paternity action in court. If paternity…

What Happens to the House in an Indiana Divorce?

On Behalf of Dixon & Moseley, P.C. | Apr 23, 2026 | Uncategorized

Executive Summary A house is considered marital property if it is owned by one or both spouses, even if it was acquired before the marriage. Indiana law presumes that a 50/50 division of marital property is fair, but this presumption can be rebutted by a number of factors. As for the house specifically, the court may award the house to…

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